Should I self-publish or publish with a publisher?

Should I self-publish or publish with a publisher?

Recently a client reached out to me with the following question: “I have an editor friend who is encouraging me to find a publisher vs self-publishing. I want to open this book up to all possibilities and I want to know what you think?” I can’t tell you how many times...
When Is It Time to Kill Your Book?

When Is It Time to Kill Your Book?

There I was, sitting on a bench outside of the Apple Store bawling my eyes out. I had lost everything. My hard drive had crashed and a book I had been working on – or talking about working on –  for a year and a half was gone forever. I was in shock. All was lost....
5 Tips to Better Blogging

5 Tips to Better Blogging

Recently, one of my clients was approached by the special sections editor of an online business journal to write some articles as a guest columnist for their how-to section. (This is what happens when you write and publish a book. People approach you for your...
Who Are You Writing To?

Who Are You Writing To?

I woke up in the middle of the night a few weeks ago with a gasp. I scrambled to grab my phone and open up the notes section, bleating into my voice-to-text at 2 am. I had been stuck. My book – which I started in February of 2015 – had been lying there dormant and...
The Biggest Thing Getting In The Way Of Your Writing

The Biggest Thing Getting In The Way Of Your Writing

It’s a worst-case scenario for me: a client is M.I.A. She hasn’t submitted her first draft and isn’t responding to emails. No bueno. I reach out to the friend who referred me to her to find out what is going on. She hops on a call with my client and is able to...
Making Bold Moves

Making Bold Moves

I can’t help you plan for your retirement. I can’t help you schedule your five-year plan….or your one-year plan. But… Bold Moves? I know Bold Moves. I can help you with that, so I jumped at the chance to write this week’s blog. Let’s not pussy foot around. Here are...
What Do You Want To Say?

What Do You Want To Say?

What Do You Want To Say? One of the problems we can encounter with writing is that sometimes the passion we have for our topic doesn’t translate onto the page. You know what you want to say, but when you sit down to write, all of a sudden you draw a blank. You can’t...
Writing Is Hard And Painful

Writing Is Hard And Painful

When I was a young punk getting my MFA in Memoir (they have those in New York), we would go to a seedy bar near 68th and Lexington after our workshops to bemoan our existence. “The writing is just so hard,” I would say. Nods from my compatriots. A round of tequilas....

Fear Part 3: What Will People Think

One of the fastest ways to get creatively blocked and stalled in your writing is to imagine your audience–a swarm of anonymous readers, ex-partners, and your mom–all judging and jeering from the sidelines. The fear of what people will think is a sneaky, slippery fear...